who were you supposed to marry?
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I was supposed to marry someone that liked being playful and liked talking endlessly about all the things in life you didn't understand. And that liked making love outside under the stars. And that liked driving and old truck down gravel roads. They would understand for some reason I am very jealous and loved me enough not to see another. Not ever. Someone once told me he never would want another woman not ever If I could have found a way he would have been it. I hate myself for not hearing him. I hope there is a better. God some where than the one that created jealousy. Maybe next time around I will find the one that wanted no other woman and we will last forever.
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Jealousy is either unfounded. Or justified... - most cases it's justified, and the other one just doesn't want to 'fess up - lesser times the jealous person is simply paranoid (for lack of better word) and impossible to reason with. Which was it in your case?
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Jonathan:
Jealousy is either unfounded. Or justified... - most cases it's justified, and the other one just doesn't want to 'fess up - lesser times the jealous person is simply paranoid (for lack of better word) and impossible to reason with. Which was it in your case?
Justified as in a man seeing another woman after declaring his love for me. Jealousy tells me he doesn't love me if he is with another. Makes me give up completely never trust that one again. It bothers me that is what jealousy says. I can't stop it. I end up hating if the relationship isn't ended. It is just that bad for me and the other party.
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I was "supposed" to marry my boyfriend Paul (heehee--Paul & Nancy) but he wasn't ready when I was so I moved on. He told me he realized his mistake, but by this time I was in love with, and engaged to, another guy (who is the father of my twins, but is unfortunately now my ex-husband)
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Nancy R:
I was "supposed" to marry my boyfriend Paul (heehee--Paul & Nancy) but he wasn't ready when I was so I moved on. He told me he realized his mistake, but by this time I was in love with, and engaged to, another guy (who is the father of my twins, but is unfortunately now my ex-husband)
I'm sorry. Exs are really hard when you have had children. I don't have any love feelings for Paul. So not that complicated.
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I have no idea. I suppose I have not met him yet. I am speaking of REAL marriages as opposed to a sham marriage. I would assume it would be a man who means what he says and says what he means. "Actions speak louder than words." I keep attracting men who want to **** me and that is it. I am tired of being nothing but a sex symbol. It was cute a long time ago, but I am tired of it now.
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butterpie:
Nancy R:
I was "supposed" to marry my boyfriend Paul (heehee--Paul & Nancy) but he wasn't ready when I was so I moved on. He told me he realized his mistake, but by this time I was in love with, and engaged to, another guy (who is the father of my twins, but is unfortunately now my ex-husband)
I'm sorry. Exs are really hard when you have had children. I don't have any love feelings for Paul. So not that complicated.
I think you maybe misunderstood me. My Paul was not Paul McCartney. (I was just saying "HaHa, same names as Paul & Nancy McCartney") This was a real boyfriend and the story is true. I get along great with my ex. As a matter of fact he's coming over on Sunday for a combination Easter/his birthday/my dad's birthday celebration. (and the kids will be here too)
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For me, real love came the 2nd time around. I'm so lucky to have gotten away from hell & am very happily married to my soulmate.
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GYPSYGIRL:
For me, real love came the 2nd time around. I'm so lucky to have gotten away from hell & am very happily married to my soulmate.
Happy for you
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Fan4-45years:
GYPSYGIRL:
For me, real love came the 2nd time around. I'm so lucky to have gotten away from hell & am very happily married to my soulmate.
Happy for you
Me too I am happy for anyone that finds love. Blessings.
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well when I was a kid, I all I knew was how to entertain, throwing all my gifts I had to swines, who never appreciated my songs and Music. then along came the Boys!! WOO WOO! going Steady was cool! we experimented a lot in those days. doing this and that, getting off those hurts from Boys fast! chasing in my car going really fast, up the hills and down the hills I would go. till we lost the boys were chasing us. whew! what would I do if they caught up with us? well that led to Senior Prom! the Best Day of My life! I thought we would Marry, and I would be his Wife. well that was never to be. I carried the Torch, for yrs cause he was my first Real Love! you always go back to that First love don't you? so time passed by and I get Shy all over again about Men! oh well! and who do you Trust? well now I can trust me this is easy for me cause I am one not to be that Impressed with most I mature, and get to know me and who I am about where I go, my in's my outs so I looked to Dylan," My Hero" among others who led me to fight for my rights. and for those who cant for themselves speak for I was drowned in all those Speech's don't do this and don't do that. I said forget about it all and find where truth really lies too many People, are looking to find the "Right One" when it may just appear to find you when your not looking. so I am blessed, enriched, and Secure with myself I know who I am, just looking to Follow that path that is laid for me now which may or may not mean I Marry again. but I shall always have Good Humanitarians friends. what more can I ask for? I have all I need so let me put some Paul on to smile and lead again, those who might be lost, so I can show them where they might head with goodness, Grace and Appreciation of this thing called Life! so OK I shall be Real. Would love to LOVE another Again. so glad I have so many good Paul friends!
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butterpie:
who were you supposed to marry?
Gregory Peck, but unfortunately I was born in the wrong time period.
THANK YOU, (((((PAUL)))))!!! WE LOVE YOU!!!
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I'm in a triad. Talk about complicated...but it's worth every moment. Every one. These folks kept me from killing myself two years ago and are so important to me now and you'd be surprised at how many liberal friends condemn you to your face in this situation
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GYPSYGIRL:
For me, real love came the 2nd time around. I'm so lucky to have gotten away from hell & am very happily married to my soulmate.
Congratulations to you for having met your soulmate!! So happy for you. Wow, what a thought... There are guys in the past whom I could have married and didn't... it turned out well, it seems.
Then I like Triplets answer of movie stars who portray a certain kind of guy (who were not that guy in real life, but none the less, they played a certain type. I always liked the Cary Grant type(married 5 times in real life) and Jimmy Stewart type who portrayed really nice guys who were just solid good guys overall... nice and very kind type of guys... I never met a soulmate type of guy in this life, but feel I have had that type of relationship in a past life.... I've done some past life regression because it's said those people from a past life are often somewhere in your current life too. I travel all over and just haven't met him yet, as the song goes... Wrote a poem years ago...about a soulmate that I feel certain that I had a close soul/heart relationship with in another lifetime.... kind of like the Christopher Reeves movie Somewhere in Time ACROSS TIME Down to the water, I was drawn again The giver of life, the endless horizon The sound of waves Echo across many lifetimes In and out, the waves count out the breath of this lifetime and those that have passed but have not been forgotten... like ghostly phantoms that echo in the hallway The moon it shines across the water the shimmer of light cuts a path to where I sit at the waters edge. Blurring the line, from one lifetime to to the last, the same moon sparkling across the water to end up at the foamy shore that lies at my feet Fizzy bubbles percolating into the sand ... I hear in the distance, the sound of music, it plays our song, I hum along The gentle sound of diners tinkling glass and porcelain plates a summer night, the voices murmur buzzing and humming and fading away to the sound of the waves again so softly they surge upon the sand leaving ripples that reflect the light And I remember the reflection of my face, In your eyes, across time, I've not forgotten Words we thought, that were not spoken Your kiss that did not stop, it was unbroken Your heart the same, the love awoken And I lift my head up to the stars And wonder where in the world You are tonight -
^^ Beautiful poem L2T.
Movie actors we wanted 2 marry, but living in wrong time period? I always wanted to marry Rudolph Valentino. I have this book on him around somewhere. I thought he was so handsome. 
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... Paul, of course!!!!
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hey_kittay:
^^ Beautiful poem L2T.
Movie actors we wanted 2 marry, but living in wrong time period? I always wanted to marry Rudolph Valentino. I have this book on him around somewhere. I thought he was so handsome. Thank You Kittay! I just saw Robin Hood and Marion tonight with Sean Connery... I'm adding him to movie actor list... love that accent!!
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My wonderful husband & I celebrated our 9th anniversary earlier this month.
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GYPSYGIRL:
My wonderful husband & I celebrated our 9th anniversary earlier this month.
So I guess you're saying you were supposed to marry him?
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Nancy R:
GYPSYGIRL:
My wonderful husband & I celebrated our 9th anniversary earlier this month.
So I guess you're saying you were supposed to marry him?
Its good to know there are those that are married that are truly in love.
