Not new, but first time actually trying to figure out how this all works. Any tips would be appreciated. 

I don't like to tell people what they should and shouldn't be offended by, everyone is different. I, however, am pretty active in women's right and think the lyrics to this song have been misinterpreted. They are, first off, a time stamp, especially since the song was written well over 50 years ago. Secondly, woman back then weren't allowed any sort of promiscuity without horrible stigma, which when you actually listen to the song is where the issue is. He is not pressuring her to stay, everyone else in her life is pressuring her to leave, SHE WANTS TO STAY AND IS DESPERATE FOR AN EXCUSE. He's giving her one. I actually think the song is progressive for back then. Just my opinion though.