I am wishing the best of luck to both of the ex's. The pressure of divorcing must have encompassed every emotional moment and overwhelmed both of them to make every day a dark day. Just remember Sir Paul you have 4 beautiful children, as well as grandchildren, who are healthy, happy and know that they are loved. They know that you will always protect them. The baby will have a major opportunity to be loved by both a mother and a father even though not in the same home. The word home is not a house it is a feeling and an important one. Do not forget that "all she needs is love".With everyone working so hard to make sure she is looked after by providing her a good earth to live upon, guidance and good vaules, how can she go anywhere but forward. You may be hurting now because life was suppossed have gone in one direction but then a curve in the road came up and immediately took you to another direction. Just remember to say "thank you". You have your health, children's love, prosperity, and have always "given back". If you look up I hope you are seeing sunshine( I live in North Miami Beach, Florida, so I am lucky to have this occur quite often)... Yet, whether your sunshine is warm or just filled with rays of light it still continues to shines upon you. Take this opportunity to breathe, whistle a tune and look towards the future. Dont's forget to Have a great day and your thoughts should prevail. Linda, North Miami Beach, Florida, USA --------------------------------------------------------------------------------