In tough times, it's very hard for friends and loved ones to put into exact words their heartfelt compassion for what you are experiencing....however, please know that, although we are not personally familiar with each other, my thoughts are with you throughout this cumbersome period. Although it may seem this painful journey will be slow to complete, as you look ahead to more vibrant days, this will become less vivid and only the more fonder memories will remain. My love & thoughts be with you. Michelle in San Diego